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Reading that made my blood boil What ignorant stupid people I think partidges reaction said it all, he knows he has a fantastic Mum, those people know nothing.xx

How horrible and nasty for you! these people are not worth listening too because they are just nasty people!I don't know what else to say but wanted to send you our Best Wishes and try not to take what they say to heart because they obviously haven't gots hearts themselves!

Bl***y ignorant people.. Who made them judge and jury?You are a fantastic mum who has battled to get your kids exactly what they need.. and the advice and support that you give to us is amazing..So sending you hugs, chocolate and scented candles aplenty... xx

i've had the 'should've aborted 'it' line about AS. other peoples insecurities can turn them into *****. good on partridge, though possibly not the safest reaction perfectly understandable.

but do you know what PT you ARE a fantastic mum and your lovely son will be a better parent because he has you to model for himwhat hope do these boys and their future children haveif i wasn't so angry for you i'd feel sad for their future babiessuze x

Oh PT that is awful, how horrible for all of you. The ignorance of some people never ceases to astound me.I haven't had direct experience of ignorance like that but one of my sisters in law is reported to have said to a mutual acquaintance "you know why she is adopting its cos she doesn't want a child to turn out like her brother" My brother is severly disabled and has learning difficulties. Needless to say she and I don't speak.Nixie

There are ignorant, close minded people everywhere....unfortunately you bumped in to one!Although you probably didn't want your AS running after them...but it shows how much he cares and loves you and his family...something these ignorant "muppets" (as Littly would say) will never understand. We can only imagine what their family life is like.DOn't waste anymore of your time on these idiots...think turquoise, think "I am a brilliant mum and an amazing person all roundSM xx

I agree with what everyone else has said Pear Tree, don't ever respond to idiots like this, they just haven't got a clue about your or Patridge's lives. It's clear he loves you very much they way he defended you which just proves you're doing a fantastic job. I don't have my child yet, but whenever anyone has ever made a fool of me or made cruel comments,and they're have been a few, I have always managed to avoid letting them see it bothers me. I just pity them because they just don't get it.Take care x

Do you know what .... just rise above it PT. You are better than these ignorant oiks ... you know that and so, probably, do they. What do they know ... sod all! Silly people like this are just not worth your time and energy. God only knows what sort of poison they are putting into their children's minds .... just doesn't bear thinking about.

Some people just shouldn't be allowed out without a gag!Ignorant, offensive oiks. Sending hugs.

thank you for your kind support.I have never ever been shouted at in such a horrid way before. Plenty of pointing and muttering, mainly by older people when I use disabled parking spaces with children clearly on view, and one old bloke who decided that he was on "blue badge watch" until my Mother got out and told him a few facts!Someone has sent me a message explaining that there is a "trend" to mock disabled people, whether they be adult or child as they think this is "funny".Hence the recent poking fun facebook things that have been able.It was a horrible experience for me and my children.Someone also said I should report it as a hate crime- which is something to think about isnt it?Part of me wonders if this comes from the obsession in the media about making out no one of working age can POSSIBLY BE disabled. No one has ever questionned my ability to be a mum and I defy anyone to see how we work things here and explain to me why I shouldnt be allowed to be a mum!!!! Oh! they are so ignorant it makes me angry!Why did this happen with Mr Pt elsewhere? Im sure I was picked off because I was going the other way without another adult with us.See! It has got to me! I am now cross because I have let it get to me!!!!!!!!

(((((pt))))))how button nasty of these so called young people...the next generation hey...well for what it is worth I too am enraged on your behalf..the motto in our house is if you have nothing nice to say then say nothing....I do wish I had been there...sharp side of my tongue would have reared its head Seriously keep a record of it, talk with local PCSO maybe this group could do with a talking too.love and best wishes june

Pear Tree,first of all, you have my full support. How truly upsetting and horrible for you.Secondly, don't introspect so much, this is not about you. Inspect those nasty lads. Why should you pay any attention whatsoever to their 'value judgements'. They'll pick on anyone who is visibly different. Tomorrow it might be a blind guy or another kid they've decided to bully for some non-existent reason, yesterday it happened to be you. All these guys are displaying for everyone to see is their utter ignorance, lack of compassion and maturity and foul character. Why should such people give you reason to question yourself? There will always be some 'individuals' who need to improve their lack of confidence and good feeling in themselves by putting someone else down. They're called bullies. They're weak people actually.Hold you head high and feel good about yourself. (and have a big hug because I know that such things can be so hurtful).

They don't know YOU, it's not personal. Just sheer ignorance and bullying. Don't let it get to you. (They've probably got their own problems anyway)Take care xx