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Poor poor middly, she and bf have split, seems that she instigated the split...in normal middly style, had hooked up with a new family that moved in across the road from bf house, it is temporary accommodation, many many children, mum on own with middly saving the day helping out with childcare and gardening, she even gave up doing a Lifeguard course at college which we were going to pay for to do this, and all because there is a lad of her age who sometimes stays with his mum and she fancies him...or does she, she often finds these chaotic dysfunctional families and basically moves in with them in some sense.The family have now moved, she is all over the place, she has had the letter from BM, the letter we were told that she would need support as it would not fill her need to know it was full of what bm is doing now with the child she was able to keep. but in normal style there was no support for her, we sat on the letter for months...much against what we wanted to do but as with our lives there was so much going on...wel you know how it is, but as our recent Chin meeting she brings it up again, and don''t ask me how or why or what even said...she knows we have it, now the meeting was a nightmare before we got too the letter but now all hell has broken loose, I am in tears, Cahms Doctor is having a go at me, our SW is having a go at her, School nurse is apologising to me because she feels that she caused this when she confronted middly about referring to me as.....she''s not my fxxxxx mother.Middly now has the letter, she says that the letter is fine and she is ok, she helped this family move, we give them packing boxes and some decorating eqp, some calmness, although we were expecting her home last night but no show...however we did get a visit from the police as apparently middly has been forcing entry to ex bf house and shouting at the dad...who has a brain injury and referring to him as spastic etc, no formal charge have been made but the family are at their witts end.