mummysoggy13
June 16, 2019 19:48
Hi,
Next weekend we are starting some life story work with our AD's 4 (almost 5) and 8 years old.
They are both at different points of what they want to know so will be doing it with them separately.
Has anyone got any tips or advice??
Thanks in advance ?
mummysoggy13
June 17, 2019 07:28
Hi Bop,
We didn't envisage doing it with the youngest yet and they have only been with us just over a year!
Our youngest is the one specifically asking questions about things and is really struggling with it all. At the moment it will just be us doing it, albeit with some guidance from our LA following a life story workshop we have done.
We are hoping to have funding shortly for DDP therapy which may also help and if we need it we can access therapeutic life story people through the LA who have been fab so far.
I am sure it will be a hard thing to do to start but it helps knowing we aren't alone in doing it ?
Donatella
June 17, 2019 19:02
I agree with Bop. At their age I’d keep it light, answer questions, drop a few pebbles but not get into it too heavily. My 13 year old has had lifestory work with a therapist and with me to support. Far better, I think, for it to be done by someone who’s neutral but with you to support them through it.
what method were you planning to use?