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Pear Tree
March 14, 2019 00:35
Our AD Blossom had a baby a while ago now. I understand that her baby became adopted. He would be walking now I guess. Sadly because of Blossoms lifestyle we have no contact with her. I just wanted to say. If the person or persons who adopted Blossomâs baby are here. We honestly and truly wish you totally the best. My hope is that youâll have many years together, filled with love and hope. When things are heavy going I hope and pray the support some of us adopters fought for is handed to you. Things didnât work out well in blossoms case re adoption but that might not be the same for her child, now your child. Go forward with our blessing.
Pear Tree
March 14, 2019 00:49
Sorry, I should make it clear Iâm not at all looking to make contact whatsoever. I just wanted to offer my very best wishes.
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Haven
March 14, 2019 07:25
Aw Pear Tree. ((((0))). I sense both your massive pain and your huge understanding heart. Such a double edged sword. You are amazing. xxx
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Cat Lady
March 14, 2019 07:46
What a beautiful post, Pear Tree, and so very sad. Sending hugs to you xxx
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shadow
March 14, 2019 09:08
so sad for you pear tree - and sad that despite you fighting for help for Blossom , the services failed you all and this has happened - poor Blossom deserved better from the services thinking of you all
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Johanna
March 14, 2019 13:14
Such a sad story. We know how very hard you tried to keep things together for Blossom . Hoping baby has a blessed life. Johanna xx
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lilyofthevalley
March 14, 2019 18:59
I completely support Pear Tree. All 6 children of my adopted son and his wife were taken into care. The fourth child was adopted and it is planned that the sixth child will be adopted too. (I am sad it has taken so long). The others were in foster care. I hope that those children settle/settled well and wish all the best for their adoptive parents. Lily
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Libertas
March 14, 2019 20:29
Such poignant - and sobering - posts, Pear Tree & Lily. Just another reminder that adoption is loss upon loss, upon loss. And that, however hard we may love and fight for our adopted children, sometimes we are powerless to break the cycle of whatâs gone before. Iâm sorry for your pain and your losses, and those of your children - and I hope for the sake of their children that they live with and are loved by resilient adopters who are well supported in their journey. You are both such generous posters who give of your expertise and personal experiences so freely, especially to those in times of trouble.
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