We are going through matching at the moment. A child we are interested in lives at the other end of the country as do most of their family, but has a relative living in our county. The courts have granted the relative indirect letterbox contact with them In the future and this is fine, we are open to, and wish to support this. The relative is a risk to the child for reasons I won’t go into, other than the court did not allow the child to live with them. The child is ‘older’ 6 yo so is recognisable.
My question is what is people’s experience of potentially living near a relative? Has anyone experienced unexpected contact I.e. bumping into unintentionally, a family member of your child and what is your advice on managing this? I find to hard to imagine it never happens as I bump into random people time to time, it’s a small world. I would be grateful for advice on this forum about how I may manage unexpected contact?