Neither my partner or I have been married.I lived with someone when I was 18 but now at 35 have not spoken to him since...no problem but just grew apart.I also had a 5 yr relationship 10yrs ago but I have no idea where he or his family is.DP has had no significant relationship prior to me and just lots of casual relationships.Do you think they will want to contact any of these?????
My SW wanted to contact anyone that i had a relationship with that lasted a while, didn't matter if i lived with them or not, and went right back to my teens.They will ask you for contact details and write to them, well thats what mine done. If you have no idea of where they are i don't think they will mind to much, but you have to show them you made an effort to find the details. I wouldn't try to keep anyone from them as they probably will find out, we found being honest about everything the best way..Good luck, and i wouldn't worry about it too much.
Our sw contacted my ex husband by post with some straightforward questions like "have you any worries about them around children". She didn't talk to him even though he is local and we are on friendly terms (no children together).She didn't want to get in touch with any previous partners, even the one I lived with for a year, as it was too long ago and there were no children involved. Same for my dh, she wanted to know about his serious relationship but didn't think it was necessary to contact them. It maybe helped that all our partners from longer ago are in different countries
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