Hi everyone,
My wife and I are hoping to adopt in the long-term future, following sudden infertility due to cancer treatment. At the moment this looks a long way off and all very uncertain (I understand adoption agencies will require her to have been cancer-free for a number of years).
In the interim I'm looking into becoming a sperm donor - I want to help other families dealing with infertility. Becoming a donor is actually quite an involved process: the chances of applicants being accepted as a donor only 5%, and of course not all donations lead to successful pregnancies. But if I go ahead then there is a chance that in 18 years' time a donor-conceived person will get in touch (this is the age they receive identifying information about their genetic donor).
I'm interested to know if anyone has had any experience with historic sperm donation being a barrier to adoption as a potential conflict of interest? I've read that having your own biological children is not usually a issue, so I would imagine that being a historic sperm donor is even less so. But we'd like to make sure anything we do now doesn't reduce our chances of adopting, if and when we're lucky enough to do this in the future.