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Nearly one year on grandson #4
aprilshowers
October 4, 2017 13:04
Its nearly a year since grandson #4 arrived into this world for a very short time, the next few weeks will be difficult for our littly and us. so very worried about her, she is refusing all help from us but is staying in touch...WE are here for her would appreciate positive vibes and prayers for her.
Serrakunda
October 4, 2017 13:16
Goodness, a whole year April. I hope littly can find her way through. And hugs for you. Will you do anything special to remember him ?
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aprilshowers
October 4, 2017 13:20
We will remember his birth, she wants balloons released, then there will be his untimely death, this is difficult as the death certificate still has not been issued, she had permission to bury him but some of his organs are still in forensics and she is waiting for the issue of cert to get them back and have them too buried with him...this is when things will get tough for us all.
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Serrakunda
October 4, 2017 13:25
Oh that's so tough April. It shouldn't take so long should it. Balloons sounds good x
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Haven
October 4, 2017 14:02
April showers this sounds so difficult and protracted. I am sending healing thoughts to all of you. And very glad that littly is at least staying in touch with you. Is there somewhere you could all plant a tree or bush or something and watch that grow? We planted a rosebush for my dad after he died, not in the same place he is buried, but in a garden where I spend time when I visit my family (they live quite far from us) and I find it very meaningful and comforting to be there. Take care, Hx
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Johanna
October 4, 2017 16:19
Sending love and warm thoughts to you all and especially to your youngest. I have planted special plants in my small garden in remembrance of those I have loved. When they flower I have a few quiet moments in the garden and it does help. Positive vibes for your daughter and hoping the balloon ceremony brings some peace to you all. Johanna xxxx
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Pear Tree
October 4, 2017 20:08
just lit my room candle and said a prayer So sad for a little life lost Cyber hugs for his mother and grandparents x
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aprilshowers
November 11, 2017 11:55
Well yesterday was the day, she came and stayed overnight, her brother and sister came for family lunch we sent up a lantern with messages on the paper shade, we cried and we hugged, WE are a family/ she has got a temp job dog sitting for a couple of weeks and was upbeat about this, all so sad and happy at the same time. Thanks for your support. xx
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About you now
November 11, 2017 13:51
Oh aprilshowers, what a sad anniversary but glad you could all support each other as best you could. Massive massive hugs xxxx
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Johanna
November 11, 2017 16:25
A family has healing strength in sad times. Sending thoughts and positive vibes to you all and a special cyber hug for your littly. Johanna xx
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Milly
November 12, 2017 08:05
Glad you could all be together to support her and that there are positives on her life too.
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mayan49
November 12, 2017 19:33
Gentle hugs to you for when you have time to process your own feelings - so sad but a real testament to you and your dh that despite everything - you were all together and supporting each other with the heaviest of hearts. Mx
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steps
November 12, 2017 19:59
You have stood by your daughter through so many dark times. The lantern with the messages is symbolic of the mixture of light and dark times that you have faced as a family. But you are there you love supports her and despite the trauma bond her siblings care and showed they care about her .have lit a candle tonight fur you all
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