We love school holidays! Definitley more relaxed as long as we know what's going on, I'd never go into a holiday without plans of some sort. Thats not to say every day is structured to the nth degree but Simba will know if there is a scout camp, visit to the grandparents, if we are going away etc
In the early years I would have to plan months in advance, now he is a bit more relaxed I can leave things a bit later - I'm only just starting to think about this summer, a few years ago I would have had it sorted by Christmas.
Not needing child care also means we can be a bit more 'free form'. At nearly 15, I can leave him at home to mess about on the PS4 or go out with his mates to town or the cinema. We have had a huge increase in crime in our area, particularly involving young people and knives so its a big worry for me, So I have deliberately set out to make our house the place to hang out, I have invested in a 'man shed' ( which one day will be my 'lady shed') It has power, heating, a fridge and microwave, table football, TV/DVD, dart board, soon will have WIFI, Sleeps 4. He has a good friendship group. I'd much rather stump up for pizzas and know where they all are.
Simba is not one for lying in - he is back from a DoFE expedition weekend but was keen to go out at 7.30 this morning to do some extra paper rounds as he couldn't do his this weekend.
I'd say that holidays now are in thirds - usually a scout activity, a third with me, and a third with his mates