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So I ended up in hospital for the past week with the possibility of going for surgery. I’m out now and undergoing tests to work out whether I do need it but chances are I will be. I decided to contact ds supooet teacher last week just to let her know where I was and what’s going on as she’s been supporting him lately with Camhs appointments etc and things to do in school to relax as he does get a bit of anxiety. Not massively but he is a worrier and especially when it comes to me. I called the full week leaving messages, said I’m in hospital, not one reply. Until Thursday, which was the one day out the whole week I was away for a scan but she left a voicemail saying she’ll phone at the end of the day... still nothing!! I didn’t want her speaking to him or letting him know I called as I didn’t bother telling him. Just wanted to say what was happening and just that if anyone thinks his mind is maybe not on the job then this was why. Am I right to be annoyed about this? I feel i could have been falling for any reason, the fact I told secretaries I’m in hospital could have been more serious so surely she should have taken the time to find out what’s going on for his sake?