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Shes like the wind
September 3, 2009 14:03
send documnets over the email.....??Just feeling fob off.Laddy should have left thursday last week....he did for one night and then was back..Though i was not happy -i need my space back!! Hubby will not put him out and tell him that family will have to sort out his issues we cant.But of course 3 weeks later im getting a bit fobbed off feeling.-he says rang Hpousing -they cant do anything unless has letter from family...well of course no letter!!-gave him help lines -noyt phoned.now the bike ran out of insurance and tax Sunday and cant get anywhere -so of course has to stay here........So finally his dad pays for insurance; and he said the insiurance company were giving it by email so that should of been yesterday ....surprise no email and no email today...So no letter = no tax and yes you guessed it he is spending more time at ours as cant get to and fro with hubby for the job.Do you get the feeling some one is not being totally honest? -i dont know why just getting that feeling....supposingly is going to stay at his mates...the same one that was the the same last week and lasted for a ''nite''I need my space back..........!
Darcy
September 3, 2009 15:52
Plesae see my reply on other post. This is your house for goodness sake. Can you ring his parents and ask what is going on???.Love Darcy xx
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mum.47
September 3, 2009 16:32
Firstly the insurance is the same as a car, if you've paid your covered the covernote would got out in the post but you can driver straight away.Secondly if he is living at yours and you put him out he is homeless and therefore housing should put a roof over his head the same day, it might not be want he wants but...I would put him in the car and driving him to the housing dept and leave him there? (tough but its the only way all the while he has a roof (yours) they will do nothing.
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Donatella
September 3, 2009 17:28
Think possibly you may need to have a few words in dh's ear pointing out that you have enough on your plate without taking on someone else's responsibility as well.Whilst I'm sure you have every sympathy for him he's not your child - you have your own to worry about. And anyway, do you really want a strange bloke in your house with your daughter? Particularly one who thinks it's okay to open mail and walk into your bedroom?? You don't know him well enough to trust him - so boot him out
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Shes like the wind
September 3, 2009 18:24
Darcy i wish i knew the number i would ring and give them pease of mind.Mum 47He rang housing but they said they couldnt help him -he need two id and letter from his parents saying they cant house him. He has one acceptable id with him -he will not tackle home to get other as told he not allowed to go there.We are talking he has two pairs of jeans and tops -he is having to use hubbies clothes....its madness!Yes i know but hubby will not put out -unlike me obviously with good intention re housing!!Madrid He is not but hubby seems to think we are as only people helping him.......ahhhhhhhh.Donatella Yes you are right i have said to hubby -last night -then its been one more and then he is....and then one more and then the bike ran out of mot -then insurance not in date......Hubby trusts him and we watch BT like a hawk (due to damaging things and so on) so would be aware.He is known by hubby through his paternal side -so not a total stranger...to him anyways.Ive told hubby ONE more night and that is it -three weeks is enough!! enough promises enough doing research NOT ENOUGH ACTION!!
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mum.47
September 4, 2009 07:15
If he is living with you, you can make him homeless and if he is under 18 they have to house him it is the law. He can get a solicitor to help him through connexions and as he has nothing it will not cost him anything.If his approaching 18 you need to push this as there will be no help beyond that.Have you tried talking to SS as he is entitled to support under 18?
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