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beachgirl July 11, 2013 13:17
Hi all I haven''t really been on this board much up until now but was hoping someone might be able to give me some advice. Our son has ADHD and serious emotional problems, which really impair his learning. We''re in the process of getting a statement now. Although he''s only in year one, I can already see how he''s struggling in mainstream school and is aware that he''s different to the other kids, can''t do as well etc, which makes him feel worse, and less interested in trying etc.I have just visited a really great special school that has quite a few kids with attachment problems, and it seems really great. so the question is how do I go about getting him in there? Obviously the LA are keen to keep him in mainstream, but I can see how he might really thrive in this special school, rather than increasingly struggling as he is now.I know we can name a preferred school on the statement, but I suspect they will argue that it''s the best place for him and say that his current school is meeting his needs. Any thoughts on how to be prepared for this, and to try to get what we feel would work best for him? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated,X
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loadsofbubs July 11, 2013 16:33
approach the special school and ask their advice about this, then speak to the SEN department at the LEA and state your preference. then you need to list the reasons you want your son to go to this special school, ie list the ways they will meet his needs better than the mainstream one currently does. e.g. smaller class sizes mean..... for your son, higher staff rations will mean.... etc. look a the prospectus and admission criteria for the special school and use that to help your case. also list the reasons that the mainstream school is not the best place to meet his needs and why, but acknowledge the pros too as this isn't about it being a bad school, just not the best place for your son in your opinion.I fought for 18 months to get my son into a special school when he was in mainstream, ironic given he has severe learning disabilities! but I wanted him to go to the local MLD school and really had to prove why this was a better option for him than mainstream or SLD secondary would have been. the local high school was great, and offer a lot, but there were a lot of drawbacks, even with the excellent provision they had, things specific to my son, so the place was huge, and he's growth restricted and tires easily, he was still soiling but would have to keep his changes in the disabled toilet, so what if he was in another block when he had and accident, and he'd have had to leave classes early to prevent him being trampled when the bells went, he takes stairs very slowly and several classes would be upstairs, but the clincher for me was that he would get no support at lunch time so was free to abscond (and he would have back then!) and come home, putting him at serious risk at harm, and if staying on site during lunch would have had to eat in the SEN unit to have adult supervision thus isolating him from his peers. for the MLD school I went to work on their communication status and my sons communication needs, on the small classes, on the lack of need for 1:1 TA due to high staff ratios, the small size of the school, the shower facilities if he had an accident, an on site school nurse for his medical problems etc. takes time, but can be done. I also said I was prepared to go to tribunal if he was turned down, and stated that in virtually all correspondence and he was the first child from my LA to get into this school (in a neighbouring LA) without a tribunal!
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Flosskirk July 11, 2013 16:37
You can name the school you want. The lea will either agree to it or will disagree and then you will have to go to tribunal. Then you will need a lot of evidence to support your case.You might want to speak to someone at ipsea or SOS!SEN for advice on how to get the school.
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carali July 11, 2013 19:05
Contact your local Parent Partnership person. Mine helped me recently with what to write to SEN dept etc and supported me getting my AD into an ebd school. Here I had to write my reasons in a letter, as LOB says, then request a change of provision, then a panel meet to look at evidence. It helped that AD's mainstream school were not exactly fighting to keep her.
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beachgirl July 12, 2013 19:21
Thanks all, looks like we probably have a bit of a battle on our hands, oh well I guess we're getting pretty used to that. Will try SOS sen etc, and try to get some extra advice. Thanks again!
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Pelham July 16, 2013 12:58
Appeal its a pain but do it they bank on the majority giving in.We moved last year.Took 6 mnts to get AC age 6 PMLD into school of choice.Did not get into protracted argument just said we would home school if our choice not allowed.We did this and before it went to appeal they dropped their case and agreed our school also pay our travelling expenses for school run which is a big help.So good luck and im sure there are red pointy boots you can borrow out there.....
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