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We've been trying to get help for AS2 for years. Four years ago we tried the paediatrician route (he already had one due to other needs and disability) and paediatrician suggested a sensory assessment by the OT. The only OT trained to do this on our area was off long term sick, so the referral was not accepted. Once she was back a new referral was sent in - 9 months after the first. This was also not accepted (we thought we were on a waiting list, but we weren't), as our area had decided that only very young children who were undergoing assessment for ASD could be given a sensory assessment. AS2 was too old - but was by this stage being assessed for ASD (and a sensory assessment would have been helpful). We've done our own training. We've seen every trauma/ adoption guru speak and read all the books. Mostly just got on with it ourselves. We then gave up the local NHS OT route, and over two years ago applied for ASF - except that it took 6 months for Post Adoption SW to come out and take down details. It should have been sorted within a few weeks, but it actually took 6 months before the finding came through. By then, the therapist who was going to do it was booked up until July 2017. She talked to me, and met son at home, was prevented from seeing him in school as the teacher said it wasn't convenient, I answered a detailed questionnaire, teacher refused as it was too near the end of term and she didn't have time(!) Autumn 2017 (now 18 months after first applying for ASF) we got a partially complete form as school still hadn't done their bit. Therapist had only seen AS2 for half an hour. Therapist and local social services in dispute about payment. Therapist eventually gets paid £800 for her report, says she is too busy now to meet with us, and doesn't want to do any more work for our SS anyway. Report is just a regurgitation of what I told her. Recommendations are very general, and not specific to AS2. There is £200 left of the ASF money. A meeting is held to see if another group of therapists can take on AS2's case (we send copy of £800 report to them). That was March. Just had letter from (new - never heard of her before - Post Adoption worker - apparently we'd been transferred!) to say the left over £200 has had to be paid back. She is going on maternity leave. Our case is closed. We can apply again for ASF if we want to. As2 has not benefitted in the slightest. We have not benefitted in the slightest. A therapist has earned an easy £800. Such a joke! Disgusted! :( Hope some of you out there have had a better experience than we have.