Hi, just waiting on stage 4 of enhanced DBS. (which will be fine) however cannot book on adoption training course till its back. The issue is , we are aware of a child that is up for adoption whom we know. We didn't know she would be up for adoption till recently. The foster parents are friends of my aunty. We love her and would love to adopt her. The problem is, another couple have arranged a meeting to meet her end of july she has a disability which i wont go into. but that doesn't faze us.. The social worker of a neighbouring council is pushing them forward because the couple which has been matched, is the only couple who have come forward. Apparently we cannot be registered of interest until we are on the approved adoption list, and our fear is we will not have opportunity as time is against, us. The foster parents love us, so would want her to go to us, but like I say were not actually on the system yet of approved adopters.
Is there anything we can do? Anything the foster parents can do? Delays or anything? we are desperate to have her, and strongly believe it will be in her best interests and know the care needed.
if preferred if someone messages me I can speak on the phone as some things are confidential and not for forums.