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Hello This is the hardest choice of my life but I realize I have to make it. I recently found out I was 5 months pregnant I was on the implant so didn''t expect pregnancy, I found out as I went to a&e for stomach cramps and the scan revealed it although I had no idea and I do not look pregnant. I am currently only 16 (almost 17) Working as a law Secretary and have been offered a place at university in October where I will start my law degree and I feel I will not be able to achieve this if I keep my baby and I do not feel ready at all im rubbish with children. I do feel bad and a part of my wants to keep her however I know I can''t for my own sake. Im still with her dad and have been for a year and a half, he has a good job and a degree but he wants to be married etc before having children and hes always made that clear. I have mentioned this to him and he has said he doesn''t mind if I keep it or adopt it out he just wants me to be happy and comfortable with my choice. I have thought hard enough now and I have decided I would like to adopt my daughter out. I would not like my daughter to go to a childrens home or a foster home I want her to have two loving parents that will bring her up as there own, some one that wants a child and is not just taking it out of good will. I was wondering before i contact agencies if any one would like to adopt my child. I do not want paying or anything so this is in no way a scam I just want some one to care for my child. My boyfriend is black so the baby will be mixed race. I only want a family to adopt her where one parent is black. I would like to meet with the people that want to adopt her and i would like them to have good jjobs and a steady home relationship etcplease message me