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Hi All My oldest AD 22years old has been very hard to deal with for a number of years, in fact we have had only intermittent contact for the last 4 years . She always had some contact with bfamily but this has increased and she tends to escape to them.. In another country from us...whenever her life goes wrong. Then she contacts me to rescue her...but this time she stole money from her bgrandma to get a flight back. And they are out for her blood. She does not know I know...instead she is charming and loving...oh and wants to borrow a little cash I will meet with her 2moro. I feel I need to confront her but want it to be a positive outcome. If that is remotely possible. She is an arch manipulator and outrageous liar so I need to be firm and clear . I still want to help her but not sure how to approach her HELP?! bilkent1