Our son is 7. He’s gradually got less clingy, shy and compliant over the last two or three years and his confidence has grown significantly which is lovely to see.
Over the last few months it feels like his confidence is turning into indiscriminately talking to anyone we meet. Only today he’s stopped to talk to strangers at a bus stop as we’ve walked past, started a conversation with a lady in a shop by deliberately positioning himself near her, and asked a random man what was in his oversized bag. People seem to think it’s cute and strike up a conversation. We’ve talked about stranger danger and he always demonstrates a knowledge of it in theory. It’s just the practice that’s a problem.
Any tips? I don’t want to stifle his new found confidence but I worry he lacks awareness re safety. He thrives on attention that adults give him. I keep him close.
It can sometimes be cringeworthy as he’s also butted into strangers personal conversations to talk to them. When we ask him about it he says “I just needed to tell them.....”. He has a friend with a diagnosis whereby he lacks boundaries and is overfamiliar, so my partner thinks our son’s learnt it from him. I’m not so sure as this friend had been around for years. It’s only recently our son has started and it’s really escalating this school holidays.