cooky175
February 20, 2020 21:32
I've spoken to my HR department regarding what leave and pay I would be entitled to. It would be 6 weeks at 90%, then down to SAP.
I'm be a solo adopter, own home with minimal outgoings, own my car outright. Very supportive family, both parents retired who have offered free childcare while I work. I live close to work so no massive commute.
I'm saving each month, with the aim of having min. £2500 saved as a 'wage buffer' by the end of the year. This is the point when I expect to be at the end of Stage 2 if everything went to plan/no delays etc. Obviously the buffer will grow during the wait to match etc.
My HR manager said that they've had other people adopt and be off work only three months; due to the SAP payments being minimal. I'd also be able to change my working hours due to their 'flexible working' policy so I'd essentially be working 9-4.30.
I know most agencies say 6 months minimum, with reviews dependent on circumstances.
Would agencies support a return to work after 4 months?
cooky175
February 20, 2020 23:13
Thanks for the response Calypso :)
Personally I'm prepared to take the necessary amount of time off work needed, the bills will get paid and I'll put in the work and time to bond etc.
Sadly my work isn't the most understanding of places, and before I've even started the process (I'm just info gathering currently) they are being awkward. They're very much "someone else managed this way, so you can too". Well I'm not someone and neither is my potential child like that other persons.
Any child related leave (maternity/paternity/adoption) longer than 6 months triggers a review of if you can return to your role and department, or if they will move you elsewhere. I do enjoy my role and it's flexibility so would want to stay in the department as other departments aren't as flexible; but if I need more than 6 months then I'll accept a role review.
It's just frustrating that the policies seem to be in place to deter people from doing things!
As an ex-teacher I'm marking exam papers in the summer which will add to the 'wage buffer fund', anything to extend my time off work when the lucky day (hopefully) comes!
cooky175
February 21, 2020 13:24
Thanks for the replies, it’s good to get someone else’s view as I feel I’m so annoyed with work, I’m unnecessarily panicking.
I got the calculator out this morning and realised 12 months off is totally viable and work will just have to accept it. If they move me departments, so what, work pays the bills.