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Over stepping the mark or is it me fed up....
Shes like the wind
September 3, 2009 14:09
well laddy came home with hubby last night...again!Now im startimng to get fed up....Sitting there on my computer doing HE stuff and he walks in room to hubby and says here is your van tax -it had come through the post..I had left hubbys opened post on the stairs...I though OH MY !!!! would you touch someone elses post and take and give a letter out of it??Then i was in bedroom putting clothes away and hgubby came in to say something -and he walks in after hubby.........O MY!!! This is my bedroom -would you just walk in??Then -sorry for letting off steam....i ring up my husband and he answers the phone says hello and then says how can we help you then!!??I said i will speak to my husband please!!Is it me or is this a little in your face and a bit odd??
frayedmomma
September 3, 2009 14:17
depends who laddy is windy sorry no help at all......
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Shes like the wind
September 3, 2009 14:32
re homeless post.....not a relative or my friend....works for hubby as apprentice.
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aprilshowers
September 3, 2009 14:35
I must admit that when I read this I was not sure who laddy was, but have just read the other post so am assuming that laddy is a work colleague? If so YES he is overstepping the mark and no it is not YOUgoing through post, walking into bedrooms...I am speechless.Hope you get this sorted soon.Love and best wishes June
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Midge
September 3, 2009 15:22
Hmmmm, I'm afraid I think you are being strung a line by a lad whose good at being economical with the truth.As on your other post on 'older adoptees' I think laddy's parents may be a PITA to him, but I think most 17 year olds would tell you similar.So is it 'horrible' step dad who has paid the 'ped insurance? Indeed, very horrible!Midge
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Darcy
September 3, 2009 15:50
Now Windy, you know me, as we have met more than once. Just think what I would say, and have a guess what I am thinking!!!.Taking the mick thats what I call it. I would help anyone, but if they start getting cheeky and taking liberties, I am afraid Mrs D withdraws her support.Love Darcy xx
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Shes like the wind
September 3, 2009 18:27
No its not step dad whos paid insurance...its birth dad...
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Shes like the wind
September 3, 2009 18:31
Darcy -io think that is how i feel now...A few nights has turned into 3 weeks....I miss throwing on pjs and slobbing it..Fed up of cooking and shopping for three adults...!Fed up of things being finished when i was looking forward to... was not happy all the milk had gone; so i had no breakfast..Just miss just being....us!
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Queenie 27
September 3, 2009 21:16
In the long run you are doing this young man no favours by alowing him to stay with you. He needs to find a place to live, either with his family or independently. He WIll be a priority with your local council due to his age, but for him to be a priority he needs to be homeless. The best thing your hubby can do is to get him to the local council offices and make it absolutely clear that he is not staying with you any longer.Your family, and BT in particular , are your first priority.Queenie
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Midge
September 3, 2009 21:31
IMHO Queenie is right. Every night you house him, he is not homeless and therefore not a priority for housing.Yes, as I said before, they are likely to put him somewhere he doesn't want to be initially, and possibly for several months, but that is how it is I'm afraid.If he has a birth dad can he not go and stay with him, if its not local, at least at weekends? Or why can birth dad not come down and sort his son out help with housing?Midge
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Shes like the wind
September 4, 2009 12:47
Enid...... yes scared enough...........!!Luckily we live in small village no buses in eve so they would have to arrange to come...Q you are right....M im not sure son special needs wife been unwell lives miles away...Anyway update-he got bike taxed but hubby paid in advance of wages.-He leaves tonight to stay with a 'mate' has promised to go to connextions to sort out the mess Saturday....mate going with him supposingly.Phew no laddy and no BT tonight......a night to ourselves.....!!
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tiglet
February 25, 2010 17:01
Thats so not on.The cheeky b*****d!!!!!Severe words will have to be said soon!!!Tiglet
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