Hi, my partner and I are still awaiting a match, but we are worrying a little about how to go about introducing our child to their extended family after placement. We appreciate that it is important for the child to have stability in the first few weeks and months after placement, and that being taken around to different houses and meeting different people might cause anxiety, but we don't really know where to draw the line with this and would like to know how other adopters have approached this.
Have other people taken their adopted child to visit grandparents within the first couple of months? Or have you had people come to visit your house first? How long did you wait before doing this and how did your child(ren) react?
Our SW has given some guidance on this but nothing particularly concrete - we understand every situation will be different, and of course the pandemic will have an impact on this at the moment, but knowing what others have done would really help put our minds at rest, thanks!