Donatella
May 19, 2019 13:44
Congratulations! Echo serrakunda - pick your battles! If he won’t wash, a quick wipe over with a wet wipe will suffice. Or not bother. He won’t get dirty overnight.
If he won’t come down, feee and dress him in his room. Forget chronological age - think emotional age. Would you expect a 2 year old to do what you’re asking? Think younger, think toddler.
Give positive choices - breakfast or dress first? Positive requests - do rather than don’t, ie do walk rather than don’t run. Fewer words mean less to process. And don’t repeat requests - give processing time.
A visual timetable.
Bluemetro
May 19, 2019 17:35
Taking up previous suggestion of evening bath. Our AS enjoyed the continuing of the routine he arrived with where shower gel was added to the bath to make bubbles as well as playing with toys in the bath. He still has this in the bath which ensures he comes out smelling fresh and takes away the morning pressure.
Another thought re dressing, are there favourite clothes or is there something about the feel of the nightclothes? Our AD who has sensitivity issues, likes the softness of his nightclothes and when he gets dressed prefers shorts or jogging bottoms which are soft.
Donatella
May 20, 2019 10:39
Personally I think it’s fine to be flexible. If the routine isn’t working for you and lo, then tweak it so that it does work. When my third child arrived she’d been in a dreadful routine - naps at 6pm, bed at 10, morning baths. And I won’t even go into her diet!
I had a 2 year old in part time nursery and a 5 year old in school so that was never going to fit into our routine. I changed it to one that suited all of us. But she was my 3rd so I felt quite comfortable with my choices.
You’ll get more confident with time - first time round the responsibility can be terrifying and difficult to know how much to change. If it was working, stick at it. If not, tweak it!