Hiya
I wondered whether anyone else had been listening to the Today programme's reports recently about unplanned contact.
The first piece was this https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p09hbm7r but then there have been various follow ups.
This is not an "I have a problem" type post, I'm just curious as to what others have made of this, whether AdoptionUK are specifically campaigning around putting specific services in place to support teens with planned contact, instead of social media unplanned contact.
Does anyone have any thoughts or experiences to share?
My eldest is 13. We've been having lots of (totally understandable and age appropriate) conversations about her birth parents and she's been trying to understand why she isn't "allowed" (her word) to meet her BM until she's 18.
I don't need support with this conversation, I'm just wondering whether others here have gone down a different route and found a way to have supervised and supported contact at this age and whether it's been beneficial.
Are there good models for this?