Hi Everyone.
I did have an account on the old forums but think i had to make a new one.
We've got our little boy moving in to us in the next 2 weeks. Its been a 2 1/2 year journey for us and 7 month process to get our boy but we are finally there.
He turned 4 back in January and where he is doing well based on his history, he behind on quite a few things. He's not even remotely potty trained and is still in pull ups. He also have no hand co-ordination with pens etc.
What we want to is time. Time as a family to settle into our new life and get him settled. We are thinking of starting him in nursery a morning or 2 a week around June time just so he gets intreaction with other children and build his skills.
What we are worried about is school in september. We've been verbally been given a space by a school head teacher but official approval is in April. We are so worried to tell the school, but esentially, we dont want him to start school until January.
We feel he needs extra time to settle and get into our family routine before shipping off to school full time. Its only 3 months but i think that i what he needs.
I believe by law, he doesnt have to start until his 5th Birthday which is January too, which sounds ideal to us but im worried about reistance from the school board. The nursery say they would be willing to have him until Janaury (although never done before) but we need the school to approve it.
Anyone have any advice or tips?
Many Thanks