Hi peps,
Just a few weeks ago we adopted a 3.5 year old girl who has experienced neglect and witnessed violence in the home (we believe this may have been by multiple men). She had some support through CAMHS last year and I think the support stopped once her behavior had improved. Most of her behaviors now are still pretty fine and normally manageable. She lived with a single female carer for 18 months (who she loves dearly) before she joined our family.
I, as the mum, have formed quite a good attachment with her however she is completely rejecting my husband. She obviously doesn't really know why she is doing it and she doesn't seem to be able to control it but she's being so awful to him. We really don't know what to do as it is making the placement almost un bearable. Our SW's are nice enough and say we are doing really well but being honest, we are close to throwing in the towel. We have a 7 year old birth son who is also seeing her reject his dad and its starting to upset him too.
Has anyone experienced similar and does anyone have any tips or tricks that they could share please? Long shot but thought I would ask.
Thank you!