I am an old user of the forums - and feel that with the support I had from others means that this is a team effort!
Shadette has been accepted by college for an Adult Return to Learning course - after being unable to access education - or the world - from the age of 13
There were many professionals and some folk on here who said I was the cause of her problems - but we have survived as a family, we are very close and I am so proud of how well she is doing now
So thank you all who gave us advice and support - its down to us all as a team