Hi everyone,
My question is a little different, hopefully someone can provide any advice that might help.
My adult child who was adopted out has recently made contact. AMAZING time after 21 years.
They are wanting to change their name back to my surname and original first name however the adoptive parents have somehow changed their certificate in a way that Births Deaths and Marriages register cant find they ever existed.
They have given Birth and Death every possible combination of their name but no search finds my child was ever born. This is stopping my child from changing their name to escape that past.
Can anyone provide any advice on how to help? my child has their original birth cert and original adoption cert but none of the details there creates a hit on searches.
Is there any way the adoptive parents could have done something to make this all sealed?
My child is now 21 and yes I'm keeping their sex private to avoid any possible association.
Many thanks,