The point I try to make is that I am not the only foreigner or expat who does not live in the uk but still has adopted uk children. I know of several, it is a bit strange really. In my opinion nothing is 'safer', just more hassle, remember username, any old password will not do so you have to remember not only the dentist appointment for braces, the gp appointment because you have a nasty flu (it started with the kids but as usual they were over it in two days, you need the gp after 14 days nearly dying), and that birthday present for a child you do not know but you're delighted that your child is invited for the first time, but also a stupid combination of letters, numbers and stupid signs! And not forget your birth year as number code! As if anyone has time for this crap.
Yes I might write a longer post if they are not kicking me off the boards before that time, In that case I just come back than under a different name, the theme is planets at the moment, lol. It is so far........ as most of you know I adopted a child who has two schizophrene birth parents it's now his turn....... the hallucinations, eye turning, psychiotic behaviours have started...........
I would like to write a post, how it is to live with this risk of schizophrenia, the early symptomes, the decision to get him into residential care at 18, antroposific care communities, adopting that child what never will be independent, how was that when he was 6, and how it is now he's 18. Those sort of things can be interesting for prospectives, but I need more time as I am moving in two months, but that's a whole different story :-)