windfalls
January 29, 2021 14:46
Hi ls,
Social workers will always put the needs of the child first and that is the way it really should be I am afraid.
As a woman I can tell you that as a teenager I would have found it incredibly difficult to talk to my dad about things like periods, my changing body during puberty, needing to be taken for bra fittings etc. Also my daughter has ASD and even though she is nearly 14 she still requires help with bathing, especially washing her hair. Perhaps social workers are concerned about practical matters such as these and so you may need to make extra effort in showing how you can meet these needs.
Knithappens
January 29, 2021 20:42
Hello,
Just wanted to say hang in there. I was raised by my Dad alone from the age of 9, he was by far the better ‘mum’. He was my best friend and dealt with everything that came along and always put me first. As long as you are prepared to deal with the biological differences especially in teenage years with lots of hormones you’ll be fine. Good luck