CatLady1
October 13, 2022 11:04
Thank you AUK, I’m very glad to hear that there will soon be someone in post to deal with online communications.
And thank you Ford Prefect for bringing this to our attention. I had not looked at the AUK Facebook page before but the responses in comments sections are distressingly one sided and extreme.
I am both an adoptee and an adoptive grandmother and I can safely say that my viewpoint could not be further away from the poster on the Facebook page. I’ve had a quick look through and it seems to be mainly one person posting their thoughts and with some lop-sided ‘supporting information’.
It will be very good to have some moderation on the page as there is currently little to no counterbalance.
Lilythepink
November 11, 2022 21:03
I'm not on Facebook now but FWIW, I largely avoid adoption Twitter for this reason.
My - not particularly helpful perhaps - reflection is that there are a lot of adults out there who are traumatised by their childhood experiences, and that social media is not a safe place to heal that. It's adversarial rather than therapeutic.
Sadly that means that as adopters (and foster carers and kinship carers) and therapeutic parents seeking support, we have to be careful about seeking safe spaces too. I miss that these boards used to be much busier, for all that they aren't private.
Also FWIW, I have a lot of time for voices advocating for birth families, safe contact, knowledge about identity and life stories in adoption. In these circumstances of funding and support being cut to the bone, I fear that support for vulnerable people in birth families is falling away too, which can't be a good thing for them or for our children when they make contact in the future.